Indian village councils relax rural iron grip

From marriage to clothing India's village councils control all aspects of rural life, but this is rapidly changing.

    Village councils have often been blamed for supporting severe punishments. [Sajjad Hussain/AFP/Getty Images]
    Village councils have often been blamed for supporting severe punishments. [Sajjad Hussain/AFP/Getty Images]

    Bass, India - Yashpal Mor grew up watching men in his village tie themselves to singlehood rather than defy the rules of the traditional council which holds strict control over Indian rural life.

    For decades families in the cluster of villages north of the capital have lived under two sets of laws - those of the government and those imposed by a group of unelected but powerful men.

    From marriage to property and even regarding the wearing of jeans, these all-male councils, or 'khap panchayats’, have issued dictates that have controlled life in much of Haryana state, which borders New Delhi.

    "I have seen many men in our village remain unmarried all their lives," Mor said in Bass, a village surrounded by lush farmland.

    "I don't want to share their fate."

    The state's largest council has, for the first time, allowed couples from different castes and other towns to marry.                              [Sajjad Hussain/AFP/Getty Images] 

    For generations, the council has banned men marrying women from neighbouring villages or different castes, assuming that they were already related, or because of caste prejudice.

    Now, in a sign of major reform coming to an area of the country steeped in tradition, the state's largest council has allowed couples from neighbouring villages, and even different castes, to marry.

    "The [new] decision that they have taken will have a lot of benefits," said Mor, 24, whose parents are now looking for a bride, a task made easier by the lifting of the ban.

    "Earlier there could be no marriage alliances but now it will start happening. So it's really something to be happy about," he added.

    "Bride buying" 

    Often embroiled in controversy the council gatherings, have been branded "kangaroo courts" for their punishments, including fines but also violence. The khaps have been repeatedly blamed for provoking honour killings, public beatings and even fuelling the buying of brides.

    In some cases, khaps have ordered young couples be stripped naked, thrashed in public and even lynched by mobs for defying their orders regarding relationships.

    We began our efforts some three years back to get rid of the caste bias. I went to every village and tried to build a consensus.

    Inder Singh, council head

    Council head Inder Singh, who led the push for reform, said he was trying to "erase the bloody past" of khaps, which dominate large areas of a mainly rural, northern India, and are often bastions of caste prejudice.

    "We began our efforts some three years back to get rid of the caste bias. I went to every village and tried to build a consensus," said Singh, 78, at his two-storey house in Bass.

    "There was a lot of resistance initially. Some five percent are still against but I am glad the majority have agreed," he said.

    Last year, girls were banned from wearing jeans and using mobile phones in a khap ruling issued elsewhere in Haryana for fear of heightening sex crimes.

    "It's a very important decision and it may prove to be a turning point for other khaps as well," said Anand Kumar, a professor of sociology in Delhi.

    "It will push others to become more reflective and liberal. It'll force them to think if they are really being fair to their sons and daughters," he said.

    According to those living in Bass and neighbouring villages, the marriage restrictions led to an acute shortage of "suitable" brides, placing intense pressure on families.

    The problem was compounded by the fact Haryana already has one of the country's worst gender ratios.

    With female infanticide rampant because of a preference for boys, eligible women were in short supply. This fueled an insidious "bride buying" industry and which left many other men unmarried in a culture that prizes matrimony.

    Local men paid impoverished families in other parts of the country cash for their daughters, residents said.

    Although there are no official figures, council head Singh estimated 10-15 "brides" were probably sold into each of the 42 villages under the khap's control in the last 10 years.

    "I hate my life here"

    Meera Deka is one such bride who says she was forced to leave her parents and her home in remote northeast Assam state when she was 25 after she was sold for $1,330 to her now husband.

    "All day I am washing, cleaning and cooking. I don't understand their language, I don't like their food. I hate my life here," said Deka as she tended buffalos in Bass.

    Under the council's complicated rules, men were allowed to pay for a bride from another caste in another state - but were barred from having a consensual relationship with a woman from a neighbouring village.

    Singh conceded the trend of "bringing in outsiders" as brides created numerous problems, with most of the women struggling to adjust.

    Inder Singh More, the head of the 42-village council said he was trying to "erase the [khaps] bloody past".                            [Sajjad Hussain/AFP/Getty Images]

    "We realised it is better to have a daughter-in-law from a different caste but who is accustomed to our culture than bring in a complete stranger," Singh said.

    The move also addresses prejudices against lower castes, which are deeply entrenched in mainly poor, rural areas. Marriages between higher and lower castes are few in a country where despite rapid modernisation, tradition still holds sway.

    And the reforms - which also include the appointment of the first woman to the khap - also go some way to softening the reputation of local councils, experts said.

    With her days revolving around her many chores, Deka welcomed the new rules, saying hopefully fewer women would be forced to move to Haryana.

    "I am glad women will no longer have to suffer like me," she said.



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